You know what will change your life? I mean really change your life?
Hard work. That’s it, hard work. There is no secret sauce, no treasure only the rich or famous know. I have worked hard, and then I have not worked hard, and let me tell you; the best of my decades of life have been during times of hard work.
I don’t mean “half assed” hard work, as my mother would call it, I mean HARD work.
So if you want a better marriage, more love, to be a better parent. If you want attention, to be recognized, to gain wealth, better health, to sing, to dance, to perform, to write, to paint. It takes hard work.
What’s wrong with hard work anyway? It makes you feel good, gives you sense of purpose, and keeps your brain off all the things that really don’t matter in life. All the negative things that creep into an unproductive day, or an unproductive life. Find something to do and get busy at it. You are not too old, too young, too white, too brown YOU have everything you need! You are made with gifts so use them! Just decide to. Make the decision because you can.
Stop your whining and GET TO WORK!